As you see, there are women all over the world who have to fight even to get their basic rights. Amazing. And very sad.
For Emel Resuloglu and her circle it's a monthly tradition: the
women's get-together around the dinner table, or "gün" in Turkish, when
one member of the group gets a little money or a gold coin.
Turkey
cherishes its traditions. But there's one that some here feel is
holding the country back socially and economically - that of women not
working, cast only as the home-maker.
"I got a university place
but my father didn't want me to go", Ms Resuloglu says, as a
freshly-baked cake is added to the table. "So I didn't work, I married
and had children at 21 and I regret not studying.
"Some women can't find jobs and others in Turkey are married off young. It's an old-fashioned mentality."
Just
34% of women in Turkey work, by far the lowest of the 35 industrialised
countries of the Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development
(OECD) where the average is 63%.
Critics of President Recep Tayyip Erdogan say his rhetoric is
worsening the situation. At a rally two years ago, he called women who
aren't mothers "deficient". Previously, he's urged women to have at
least three children and denounced birth control as "treason".
Turkey
now ranks 130 of 144 in the gender gap index of the World Economic
Forum, based on access to health services, educational attainment,
economic participation and political empowerment.
But Ravza
Kavakci Kan, an MP with the ruling AK Party, says the government has
liberated conservative women by revoking Turkey's old ban on headscarves
in public institutions.
"This enables women who choose to wear
the headscarf to join the workforce and get an education", she says.
"But it takes time for policies to apply to real life."
Is it,
though, right for the president to tell women how many children they
should have or criticise those who choose not to have a family?
"As a president, he looks to the future of our society," she replies.
"Turkey has an ageing population and we need more young people, so it's
totally a demographic point of view."
There are just two female ministers in the Turkish cabinet - one is the minister for family.
"We're in a better place than we were - but we have a long way to go, just like many countries," concedes Ms Kavakci Kan.
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